It’s not your fault: a booklet for men


‘It’s not your fault, men talk about living beyond the effects of sexual abuse’ is a book for men who have experienced childhood sexual abuse. It shares stories of survival, hope and healing.

It is helpful for professionals, family members or friends who may be supporting male survivors of childhood sexual abuse. The booklet addresses the strong sense of shame and self blame men can feel about being subjected to child sexual abuse.

It explains the:

  • Abuse of power that occurs during sexual abuse
  • Effects of manipulation and betrayal
  • Ways young people and adults have acted to protect themselves from painful effects of abuse.
There is a strong message that men are much more than the sexual abuse they were subjected to and the effects it has on their lives.

The booklet draws heavily on the thoughts and experiences of men who have accessed Respond SA’s counselling and group work program.

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It's not your fault

It's not your fault: men talk about living beyond the effects of sexual abuse